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6 of the best sex positions for gay men who favor to top
For queer people, figuring out whether you like to top, bottom, or switch (also known as "verses") can be the first step to having a fulfilling and pleasurable sex life.
But sometimes, if you're a top – or person who likes to have a more active role during sex – you may feel pressure to find creative ways to mix up your sex life.
Here are some sex positions for gay tops that can help grab the guess work out of the night.
1. Missionary
Missionary allows you to make make eye contact, kiss your partner, and maybe get in a bite or two while you top them.
Your partner lays on their back facing you while you thrust on top of them, allowing for deep penetration. This can make it easier to transmit during sex about what feels good.
2. Doggie style
Doggie style can be a great way to top your partner. Like the position name implies, your partner kneels on all fours while you penetrate them from behind.
For added sensation, you can also reach around and give them a hand job at the same tim
Troye Sivan said he's a 'verse' during sex, not a 'top' or 'bottom.' Here's what the terms mean.
Troye Sivan, a singer known for his track "Bloom," recently set straight rumors that he only enjoys receiving penetration during sex.
"I think in the sort of consciousness of gay people I'm some crazy control bottom or something, which is just not the case, and I just wanted to lay that out there," Sivan, a gay man, said on Emily Ratajkowski's podcast "High Low."
Sivan said that he's a "verse," meaning he enjoys both penetrating a partner and being penetrated during sex.
"Verse," as well as the terms "top" and "bottom" are popular ways to describe sexual preferences in the queer community.
While the terms were originally used to describe the sexual preferences of queer men in the 1970s, more LGBTQ+ people possess adopted the terms to converse about what they like in sex.
Lately, top/bottom/verse discourse has grown more visible on TikTok, where queer people have been making videos describing the unique struggles of each preference.
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What Does “Top” Mean?
In the context of gay relationships and sexual dynamics, terms such as “top”, “bottom”, “verse” and “side” are often used to describe a person’s sexual preferences and roles. It is important to knowing these terms not only for members of the LGBTQ+ community, but also for increasing empathetic and acceptance of queer relationships in society.
What Does “Top” Mean?Physical AspectsEmotional and Psychological AspectsCommunication and ConsentWhat Does “Bottom” Mean?Physical AspectsEmotional and Psychological AspectsThe Stigma Around Being a BottomWhat Does “Verse” Mean?Accepting DiversityCommunication and CompatibilityWhat Does “Side” Mean?Non-Penetrative IntimacyOpposing NormsAccepting One’s IdentityRoles and MythsHealth and Shelter During Gay Sex
As a verb, in gay sexual relationships, the “top” is the partner who has a penetrative role during anal sex. However, the concept of top includes much more than just physical actions: it includes a whole set of attitudes, preferences, and sometimes feeling roles.
Physical Aspects
In physical terms, the t
Have you ever been talking about sex positions with friends and then all of a sudden someone will just drop a really random position as their favourite?
Like - the pinball wizard, the snow angel, the butter churner, pretzel dip, or the magic mountain. And you're just like wtf???
It happened on Love Island UK recently, where contestant Luca asked one of the other islanders Paige what her favourite position was and she said "broken eagle" and everyone was so confused.
"It's enjoy, when the girl lies on the bottom, lying on my front, you know how girls sleep half bent, the other half straight, the guy doing his thing."
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If you're someone who's just started having sex, or maybe you've been rotating the same two moves your whole life, it can feel pretty overwhelming. You might be thinking 'am I having boring sex? Is everyone else doing hectic and crazy moves? What actually are the finest and most popular sex positions?'
Well have we got you covered!