Gay men wear diapers
COLUMNIST: &#;GAY SEX LEADS TO WEARING ADULT DIAPERS&#;
A misguided Nigerian columnist has claimed that many gay men are forced to wear &#;diaper-like products&#; because of their sexual activities.
Benedict Hart&#;s Protecting children from the scourge of homosexuality was published on Saturday by the Nigerian Vanguard daily.
In the article, he backs President Goodluck Jonathan&#;s decision to sign an oppressive new anti-gay law in January because, Hart claims, gay people are not only exposed to &#;grave spiritual dangers&#; but also &#;fatal health hazards.&#;
He states, without citing any medical or scientific sources: &#;Medical experts verb confirmed that anal intercourse which homosexuals practise tends to stretch and greatly weaken the anal sphincter muscles, leading to grave digestive problems, constipation, irregularity (of bowel movements), and ultimately to cancer of the rectum.&#;
He adds that, as a result, &#;Many homosexual men have to wear diaper-like products&#;&#;
Hart then goes on to warn that &#;some mischievous and unscrupulous persons have been re
Q: I want to correct you on something you&#;ve said repeatedly: a man can &#;hide&#; his bisexual orientation. I disagree. I felt my boyfriend was gay or bi immediately, but he flatly denied it. But it was so obvious! He sucked at sex, he never initiated, and he was clueless about female anatomy! I was forced to hunt for proof, which I discovered after nine months. Then I mercilessly outed him to friends, humiliated him to his face, and finally confronted him with the proof of his profile on a gay hookup app. I enjoyed every wicked minute exposing his lies and telling everyone the authenticity because he used and exploited me in a fake relationship. I was wrong about a couple of things. First, I thought if I asked him if he was gay, he would confess and come wipe with me. Wrong, he never did. Second, if he was gay, he wouldn&#;t hide that fact because gays won the LGBT rights fight. Wrong. I am a fag hag but only because I like feeling superior and enjoy what I get out of my friendships with gay men. But I’m not interested in fruit juice. —Furious And Vengeful Ex
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JF: Your fascinating article brings to mind Sara Ahmed’s (, ) description of “queer orientations” as “those that don’t line up, which by seeing the world ‘slantwise’ enable other objects to come into view.” What “other objects” came into view over the course of your ethnographic work in Kenya?
GPM: I should mention that this article is part of a larger book project that takes various “queer objects” as alternative points of departure for understanding the historical reconfiguration of intimate citizenship. In particular, I am interested in thinking of new ways to historicize anti-homosexual violence, while troubling racist liberal ideologies of an “African homophobia.” During my research, I noticed something quite striking: that, despite the global proliferation of homophobia as a tactic of ethno-nationalist governance, among other things, the “homosexual threat” that its rhetoric so saliently invokes is often very difficult to pin down or identify in everyday life. And so, to make the homosexual body a more balanced target of outrage and viol
Q: I&#;ve been dating a nice guy for a month or so. Sex is fine, and we&#;re fairly compatible in other ways too. He told me he likes to wear diapers. He said he doesn&#;t want me to do it with him, but that every once in a while he likes to wear them because it makes him feel &#;safe.&#; He said that this odd behavior isn&#;t sexual for him, but I have trouble believing him. I&#;m not sure how I feel about this. He also said that it embarrasses him and he wishes it wasn&#;t something he needed. If you have any insight into what to ask him or how to make sure I can keep him satisfied sexually as we move forward (if we do), it would be appreciated. —Do I Ask Pooper Everything Respectfully, Sir?
A: You shouldn&#;t assume (contra your sign-off) that Potential New Boyfriend (PNB) is pooping his diapers. Most guys who are ABDL (adult baby/diaper lover) are interested only in wetting themselves, if that. (Some only wear, never fill.) It sounds like PNB is struggling with kink and/or sex shame, DIAPERS, and the assumption you&#;ve made about the extent of his diaper play might put